Paul in all
his service unto God, sought always to maintain a clear conscience, that is,
one without conflict with God or man. However, it is clear from the record that
conflict with some individuals both in the church and out of it, existed in his
life, in spite of his efforts. It should not mean that because we may not
manage to make all relations and dealings free of difficulties or clashes, that
we therefore, throw all caution to the wind, and care nothing for keeping peace
or harmony with our brethren. The attitude that easily dismisses some ‘difficult
people’ or treats them with contempt and avoidance, is not the kind of ‘exercise’
Paul is speaking of in this text! Some have become masters at indifference
toward those they consider hard to deal with, choosing the comfort of others,
who may provide the personal praise or acceptance they seek. I am sure we all
desire to be appreciated, but it is not likely that our growth or the
improvement of the other person, will happen without exposure to some tough
love. Others seem to have taken a degree in grudge-holding, remaining distanced
and alienated even when there may be a way to bridge the gap, and win in not a
tender closeness, then at least a position lacking in offence. The Scriptures
teach us that in every way possible, and with as much effort as we can summon
on our part, we should live at peace with all men. Naturally this does not
control the other party! They must be willing to obey the same directive for
themselves. We can only dictate to our own conscience and direct our own actions
and responses, but certainly that much, we must do. Although conditional, our
hearts, minds and desires need to be so immersed in God and His love that we
can manage to maintain the best conceivable and most harmonious relationship
with as many individuals as is possible. This means effort and consistency,
patience and humility. Insisting on finding common ground and a basis for
communion, oneness of mind and unity with our brethren, is at the core and
foundation of the kind of love we are all commanded to have one for another,
and cannot be easily dismissed or put in the ‘too hard basket’!
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